Published on November 18, 2004 By nmrhth In Personal Relationships
A girl just ended her relationship with me. Everybody thought this time would be different with her. I thought it would be different. She said it would be different. She was flaky before. She seemed fine this time. Then out of the blue: "I don't think this is going to work. It's not working for me." I'm numb from the shock. At least every other time I could see it coming. I got blindsided this time. And right after my friend stopped talking to me because I was with her. So, needless to say, I'm not in a very good mood. I was in love with her for the better part of 4 years. I still am. I think this is finally the point at which it doesn't matter anymore though. I don't think I can ever go back again. Half of me is really sad that I all this is over after such a long time. But my other half is glad that I don't have to deal with this anymore. As much as I wanted it to work, it never really did. Maybe I will care more when the shock wears off. Or maybe I'm just numb to this feeling, having experienced it so many times with her. Either way, I guess my life is back to the way it was before.
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on Nov 18, 2004
I'm sorry to hear about this, man. Nothing worse than giving someone another chance just to have it thrown back at you. While it probably doesn't feel like it right now, you sound as though you'll be better off without her. I hope you'll be able to mend the friendship that was lost over her - no date is worth a mate. Ever.

Take care of yourself.

Suz xxx
on Nov 18, 2004
Luckily, my friend wasn't mad at me. He just didn't want to talk to me because she was his ex-grilfriend and he didn't want to be reminded of her. So we're talking again, which is good.